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Monday, April 17, 2006

My little violinist has totally shocked me

Bria has been playing the violin for about 2 1/2 years now. She's really getting quite good...something just clicked in the last few months and her progress has just shot upward. It has been really amazing for us to watch.

Even so, she is so not into playing for other people. I suppose this is normal, but at her last three recitals she flat out refused to play. She'd get up in the front when it was her turn, stand there, look around and sit back down. She actually did play at the last one, but only under extreme duress and the promise of purple lipstick (that's what she wanted most) when she was done. True to our word, we took her straight to the store and she picked out her Bratz purple lipstick with matching nail polish. Ah the power lipstick holds...she is her mother's daughter.

Not only is she not into playing in front of others, she really doesn't like to practice all that much. No supposing here...I know this is normal. I never much liked practicing when I was young, either. So, I've resorted to using all sorts of bribes in the past: One M&M for every song she played. A trip to the mall playground if she practiced for x amount of time. All you moms know the drill...all these tricks we have up our sleeves to get our kids to do what they're supposed to do anyway., Joel's brother and his girlfriend were coming over for Easter dinner. We don't see them very often because they live in Utah like every other family member we have. I casually mentioned to Bria the other day that Uncle Sean plays the cello and he would just love to hear her play her violin. Yesterday, she actually asked if she could please practice. Who am I to say no to that...and on a Saturday to boot! That's usually the hardest day to get her to practice! Then, today after Church she wanted to practice again. She didn't want to stop. I honestly got so tired of playing the piano for her that I had to sit on the couch and listen to her play sans accompaniment. And then I really needed to get a few things done, but she didn't want to quit. So she took her violin CD in her room and practiced by herself for another half an hour. Get this: My five year old, who normally complains that her arm is too tired after 10 minutes of practice, practiced for an entire hour and a half today. Joel and I were astounded...especially that she was doing it in her room with the door closed without adult supervision. SHOCKING.

And when Uncle Sean came, she played all of her songs for him and even wanted to play them a second time. Only the promise of pie made her stop. This is my child who has rarely played for anyone other than Joel and me. And you know what? Today I think she played better than she ever has. Probably because she has finally found enjoyment and fulfillment in it. I know it came to a point like that with me...I could play well enough that it wasn't a struggle all the time, and I wanted to practice. And I could play "fun" music, and it really became more of a fun thing to practice the piano instead of a huge chore. So, at five years old, I am hoping that Bria has at least had a glimpse of that point even if she isn't quite there yet. I sure won't complain if she wants to be practicing for an hour a day!!


  1. wow how great for a 5 year old to do this. lol my kids will only watch tv that long.


  2. oh my goodness she is only 5! wow, that is wonderful :)

    I have been playing the piano for over 10 years now. And I am not big on playing in front of people still. I do it..but I get so nervous..I literally shake. I remember not wanting to practice, thats definitely normal. I agree, once you start enjoying it and getting to play music you like, you want to practice more. :) congrats on having such a gifted child

  3. WOW!!! How wonderful! My two daughters play piano. They are 10 & 6 and the 6 yr old practices WAY more than the 10 yr old!! LOL

  4. That is so neat! How very exciting!

  5. wow, it's so nice when they finally make a click and enjoy something!

  6. I loved playing for my family (not the ones that I lived with). I Think you need to move to Utah so she'll practice more. :)

  7. tell our little Bria we are so very excited to hear her play again and again. And now with Chloe. Love Mamah