These five tricks keep me in an organized mindset, and then the rest falls into place much more easily. The real trick is to make sure I am actually doing these five things, and that's the part I'm not always so awesome at!
1. Use a Paper Planner
For me, this is imperative. I remember things better when I write them down, plus it's just much easier to keep my life and the lives of my family organized in a paper planner. Also, when I'm making appointments I'm usually on my phone, so it doesn't seem like the most convenient thing to keep my schedule in my phone. A paper planner is simply more visual and helps me keep my thoughts, tasks, and my schedule straight. (Be sure to scroll to the end for a chance to win one of my favorite planners!)
2. Take Care of Yourself First
You know how when you're on a plane and they teach you to put on your own oxygen mask first before you help others in the event of an emergency? It's an analogy that is used often, but it's because it's true. Do not fall into the mom trap of taking care of everyone else before you take care of yourself. I fully admit that I'm not so great at this one, but on the days when I make a concerted effort to take care of my needs first, I get a lot more done for everyone else, too.
3. Have Family Council Often
If your kids are tiny, make sure you and your spouse are meeting together often to discuss the household, the kids, the schedule, and the budget. Knowing you're on the same page goes a long way towards having an organized household.
When the kids are old enough, include them in the family councils and have them at least weekly. To read some of the things we include in our family meetings, click here: How to hold an effective family council meeting.
4. Get Rid of Distractions
This is a huge one for me. Notifications dinging on my phone and computer and phone calls are the biggest offenders. When I need to be focused on something--cleaning, writing, helping kids with homework--I get a lot more done if I put my phone on do not disturb. I can always call people back, check email and texts, and look at Facebook when I am finished with the more important stuff. It will be there waiting for me.
When I forget to do this, I find myself breaking focus for every little ding on my phone and so many of them are totally unimportant! Just turn them off!
5. Learn to Say No
This goes right along with getting rid of distractions. I have had a bad habit of always saying yes to everything, even if it doesn't serve me or my family and causes me great stress. It's pretty impossible to stay organized when you simply have too much on your plate.
In the last few years, I have finally learned that it is totally okay to say no, and I have figured out how to do it graciously. I have gone from being a frazzled mom with way too much going on to one who is able to focus on the things that are most important to me.
As part of my celebrating motherhood giveaway series, I'm excited to be giving away my favorite Mom on the Go Planner. Enter to win in the form below (if you are on mobile, just click the giveaway link). (Giveaway ended 5/19/16)
Thanks to Mormon Mom Planners for giving away a planner to one of my readers! (And don't worry, you don't have to be Mormon to love the Mom on the Go planner!)
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